15 Awesome Relaxation Techniques When Your Kids Have a Meltdown

by Sharlene Habermeyer

Inside: Here are 15 relaxation techniques to do with your children when they are stressed, feeling anxious or having a meltdown. Do them together as a family to help everyone find Zen harmony!

Ever heard of mirror neurons? It’s a way we unconsciously send our emotions or feelings into a room and affect other people in the room—for good or for bad. When we’re under stress, our children and teens can pick up our negativity and anxiety through the “mirror-neuron-emotions” which can affect their actions. The opposite can also happen–parents can pick up their child’s negative energy. What can we do to diffuse our stress and help our kids at the same time?

Relaxation Techniques for Parents & Children

I have 5 boys (who are now grown). And there were plenty of times everyone in the house was transferring negative neurons back and forth. However, here are 15 simple relaxation techniques that we did that can help you and your children de-stress and send out positive neurons to create a happy home.

I recently wrote a blog on 5 ways to relax. Today, I’m giving you and your kids 15 “tidbit” relaxation techniques. Most are simple and can be done quickly and all pack a powerful punch of unwinding and decompressing. In a nutshell, they’re just what the doctor ordered for kids and parents needing a way to relax.

So, when you and your children and teens are having a meltdown, feeling anxious, stressed, or angry–try one or two of these techniques. They work!

15 Simple and Powerful Relaxation Techniques

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Walking is a powerful form of exercise that any child can do. It increases endorphins in the brain and makes us feel good.

#1 Walk Your Cares Away

We all know how important exercise is to our body and mind. But you don’t have to sweat for hours at the gym or run a marathon to benefit from exercise. A simple walk will do the trick. Walking around the block will release endorphins—the opiate feel-good chemical in the brain–which will reduce or eliminate stress.

Walking also:

  • Calms the mind
  • Improves digestion
  • Exercises the heart and lungs
  • Improves sleep
  • Improve muscle tone

Suggestion:

Add walking to your family routine and watch how much better everyone feels, acts and responds to daily stress.

#2 Laugh Out Loud!

Believe it or not, laughter is a whole-body experience because it positively affects every organ of your child’s body. Children naturally find things to laugh at, but parents under stress forget how much this simple activity can balance both body and soul.

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Laughing out loud is good for body and soul! Take time with your kids each day for 100-200 belly laughs.

Laughter can:

  • Releases feel-good brain chemicals
  • Shuts down the production of stress hormones
  • Releases catecholamines into the bloodstream which reduces inflammation and speeds the healing process.
  • Works the abdominal muscles making them stronger
  • Strengthens the lungs

Suggestion:

Grab your children and do 100-200 belly laughs every day which—according to the Mayo clinic—is the equivalent of jogging or rowing for 10 minutes (a fun way to burn calories).

Start today and make the simple act of laughing a family tradition.

#3: Wake Up to Morning Pages

Years ago, I read Julia Cameron’s book, The Artist’s Way. She describes a powerful relaxation technique to reduce stress; bring calm into your life and solve the problems causing pain. It works for parents, children, and teens.

She calls it, “morning pages,” and it works like this:

  • Each morning put your pen to the page and continuously write whatever comes into your mind for 3 full pages (don’t lift your pen from the page)
  • Do not worry about punctuation, grammar, spelling or critiquing your work.
  • The goal is to tap into your inner sub-conscious; draw out anything that is causing you pain and eliminate it through the writing process

Don’t ask me why this works…but it does. This simple exercise will give you and your children a new perspective on life as you glean different solutions to lingering problems. You will feel happier and definitely more at peace.

By the way—this works amazingly for teens!

Suggestion:

Yes, this takes more time to do—but I can guarantee you—the results are powerful! Gather your children and teens around, explain how morning pages work; try it for 21 days and watch your family’s happiness quotient improve.

#4: Breathe Away Stress

Anxiety will change your child’s breathing. Less oxygen is taken in, and the additional CO2 alters the acidity in the blood which can lead to a panic attack. A quick way to defuse their anxiety is through simple controlled breathing exercises. I mentioned this in another blog, and it’s very simple:

  • Breathe in through the nose for 3 seconds
  • Hold for 7 seconds
  • Breathe out through the mouth for 8 seconds

This type of breathing uses the entire lung capacity and allows you or your child to feel calm and relaxed almost immediately.

Suggestion:

This relaxation technique is a no-brainer. Do it every day with your kids before they go to school; when they get home; before doing homework; before eating and whenever they feel stressed.

#5: Pet Your Pet

When our son Ryan was about 11 years old, he turned into a little monster. Yes, I know he was headed into puberty, but something needed to be done. We decided to get another pet to help him (despite the fact we already had a dog, bird, and fish). He wanted a cat—so we got him a cat. That cat lived for 19 years and was a devoted pet to my son (which is unusual since they are such independent little creatures).

Whenever Ryan was angry, anxious or mad, he would take his cat and pet it and that little simple act totally negated his anger.

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Allow your children to have pets. Science says that pets show unconditional love and help children stay calm and relaxed.

Researchers at the University of California found that people and children who own pets suffer from less stress because of the unconditional love a pet gives its owners. A 2012 study at Virginia Commonwealth University found that families who own pets have lower stress levels and work more efficiently at school, home and work.

Suggestion:

Get your family a pet—or even “pets.” It may be the answer to happier teens and families!

#6: Hug a Tree

Have you ever read the book, The Hidden Life of Trees? It’s a fascinating book about how trees communicate with each other and how they protect one another against damaging insects and disease.

Native Americans have long thought that trees contain reservoirs of energy that can ground and inspire those who connect with them in nature. Standing next to, touching or even bear-hugging a tree will connect you to the life-giving energy of the tree and experience calm.

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When your child leans up against a tree, they can literally fill their bodies with the energy from the tree.

Suggestion:

The next time you or your child is feeling stressed or exhausted, go out in nature, find a tree; sit or lean against its bark; close your eyes; breathe deeply and soak up the energy these mighty forces of nature offer.

#7: Energy-Producing House Plants

You’ve probably heard about the importance of having house plants. It’s wonderful to have something that is alive and growing in a pot, but plants do so much more than provide beauty. They oxygenate the air and according to a NASA study, they filter toxins out of the environment helping people to feel better.

Suggestion:

Take your kids and purchase some potted plants to put in every room in the house. Besides oxygenating your environment, plants also help rid your home of formaldehyde found in furniture and benzene used in cleaning solutions.

#8: Chocolate–an Important Food Group

I love chocolate. In fact, I have to have a little chocolate each and every day. Chocolate makes me feel better and my homemade chocolate chip cookies work wonders for improving everyone’s mood in our home. Call it comfort food, but I think there is something magical about this creamy smooth substance.

Yes, chocolate contains the stimulant theobromine, but apparently, it’s also full of the feel-good chemical related to amphetamine. Studies also suggest that chocolate is heart-healthy, prevents cancer, and improves our moods.

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Try giving your child something chocolate when they feel stressed. Science says it will make them feel better

Suggestion:

If your kids are like me—when they’re feeling low and you’re at a loss on what to do—buy them chocolate. It provides instant relief! (I keep a stash just for these occasions).

#9: Rescue Remedy

When I was studying nutrition, one of my classes was on the Bach flowers. It started with Dr. Edward Bach, a renowned physician, and bacteriologist, who was influenced by the work of Samuel Christian Hahnemann, the founder of homeopathy.

In the 1930s, Bach left his medical practice and began studying plants and flowers. He classified 38 emotional states and then experimented with flowers and the effect they had on each emotional state. When the flowers impacted an emotion, Dr. Bach soaked the flower in spring water; preserved the water in brandy and made tinctures or remedies.

You are probably most familiar with Rescue Remedy which is made up of 5 different flowers:

  • Clematis (for forgetfulness and not attending to tasks)
  • Star of Bethlehem (for shock)
  • Impatiens (for irritability and impatience)
  • Rock Rose (to lessen terror or panic)
  • Cherry plum (for fears or anger and to calm irrational thoughts).

The University of Miami School of Nursing found that Rescue Remedy can help adults, teens or even children with stress or anxiety. And in most cases as much as a pharmaceutical drug, but without the side effects.

Suggestion:

Carry Rescue Remedy in your purse and when you or your children are feeling upset, anxious, or irritable put 4 drops on their tongues. It will only take a few minutes to notice a calming effect. You can also put 4 drops in water and sip throughout the day. I hate flying and use RR when I fly–it helps to soothe my anxious soul.

#10: Eat an Ice Cream Cone

Are you an ice cream fanatic? If so, check out my amazing homemade ice cream recipe.

It’s been found that people are happier when eating an ice cream cone. Maybe it’s a throw-back to your childhood or maybe there is something therapeutic in meticulously licking the ice cream off the cone, but whatever it is, it works for stress, anxiety, and even anger.

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Because of the magnesium found in ice cream, it helps to calm and relax children.

Ice cream is filled with calcium which like magnesium helps to nourish the nervous system and calm people down who are feeling angry, stressed or irritable. It can even ward off panic attacks.

Suggestion:

The next time your children are fighting with each other—calm them down with an ice cream cone.

#11: Blink Away

Do you or your children spend long hours at the computer? If so, you’ll want to read my blog on the dangers of too much technology. Science has discovered that spending long hours at the computer can cause “computer vision syndrome.” It includes eye irritation and blurry vision; headaches, backaches, fatigue, and sore muscles.

To protect your brain AND your health from too much computer use, you must take 10 minutes each hour and get away from the computer screen. In another blog on technology, I give 14 different suggestions on how to reset the brain from the computer.

As odd as it seems, the mere act of blinking your eyes will help to lubricate the eyes and keep them from drying out. However, most of us blink 15-20 times per minute so you will need to consciously blink more to lubricate your eyes and help relieve eye strain caused by computer use.

Suggestion:

Every hour, step away from your computer. For eye relief: lie down; put cool compresses over your eyes and listen to soothing music or splash your eyes with cool and then warm water. Afterward, consciously blink, blink, blink

#12: Whistle While You Work

Believe it or not—whistling is a way of making music and pursing your lips to form this “music” improves your health and is a powerful relaxation technique.

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Whistling is amazing for helping children to relax and defuse panic attacks

Whistling strengthens your lungs which is important because most of us only use ½ to 2/3 our lung capacity and when you strengthen lung capacity it affects every cell, organ, and tissue in our body and makes you and your kids feel better.

Whistling also:

  • Lowers anxiety by regulating your breathing
  • Eliminates stress by allowing your mind to focus on something happy.
  • Lifts your spirits. Studies show that the act of whistling improves people’s moods.
  • Keeps you young looking because when you whistle you are exercising the cheek and lip muscles.

Suggestion:

Wake up each morning and encourage the whole family to whistle while you are getting ready for the day. Life will look better and stress will fade.

#13: Spritz Your World with Color

Can you imagine what a dull world it would be if we could only see in shades of black and white? (dogs only see in black & white). Did you know that most people ONLY dream in black and white?

Thank heavens we wake up from our dreams to a world dressed in the most dazzling colors of the rainbow! Why? Because color is powerful. We feel the vibrations of color through our skin; it affects our moods and using the right colors can melt away a child’s anxiety.

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Color can energize teens and help them to think clearly

Color can also

  • Energize children, teens, and parents
  • Have a clarifying effect on our minds helping us to think clearly
  • Help children to express their inner needs

Because colors contain an energy field or aura it has been used for people suffering from a terminal illness, cancer, child abuse, or teens who have experienced the loss of a friend through suicide. How are colors used in these situations? By:

  • Wearing certain colors
  • Visualizing color (in a sunset, the ocean, trees, flowers, birds)
  • Eating foods of specific colors.

Suggestion:

Help your children splash their work and sleep spaces with color. Let them pick out their own clothes as they are often drawn to colors their bodies need. And fill their diets with colorful fruits and veggies. Here are ways color affects us:

  • Blues and purples are calming to the nerves; lowers blood pressure and promotes peace
  • Reds are stimulating to the body; increases stamina and improves circulation
  • Yellow eases mental fatigue and aids in digestion
  • Green supports our immune system.

#14: Don’t Lose Your Marbles

Reflexology works by stimulating the energy zones within the body and is amazing for bringing the body back into alignment. However, it usually requires going to a person trained in this therapy. But, since reflexology is mainly centered on the hands and feet, here is a simple exercise you can do with your kids at home to stimulate pressure points on the feet and help with relaxation

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Using something as simple as marbles to run your feet over provides a simple reflexology experience and helps to balance the body and emotions.

  • Get a large plastic container (large enough to put your foot into)
  • Fill the container with marbles
  • Using one foot at a time, roll your foot over the marbles in a steady rhythmic fashion. It will act as a foot massage and stimulate the reflex points found on your foot.
  • Repeat with the other foot

Suggestion:

Plan a weekend where you and your kids can do this fun relaxation technique.

#15: Yoga: The Ultimate Zen Harmony

Yoga is an amazing way to experience Zen harmony. The five main systems of yoga include: spiritual, emotional, mental, physical and social. It’s accomplished through different postures and sequences. Harvard Medical school found that yoga can reduce anxiety, blood pressure, and heart rate as well as help people with diabetes.

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Here are several yoga poses that you can do with your children to foster relaxation and Zen harmony.

As I mentioned in other blogs, yoga can be used to help children sleep and aids digestion. It can also help with relaxation and eliminating stress from you or your child’s life.

One yoga pose that is very simple to do with your children is called Savasana or the corpse pose. Here’s how it’s done:

  • Lie on your back on the floor with your whole body touching the ground
  • Palms should be pointing upward
  • Legs and arms apart
  • Breathe deeply

Suggestion:

Try this yoga pose with your children before bedtime; before school or whenever they feel stress or anxiety. Taking a yoga class would be an important activity for the whole family!

There are many other relaxation techniques for you and your kids that I didn’t cover—meditation, naps, imagery, music therapy, gardening, dancing, painting and more—but this list of 15 will give you a powerful place to start.

Enjoy!

What relaxation techniques do you do as a family to unwind and get rid of stress? Please share in the comment section below.

Some of the information included in this post is part of my “Tidbits of Wisdom for Parents” series on YouTube. To access the link, click here.

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Sharlene Habermeyer is the author of “Good Music Brighter Children.” A blogger (Good Parenting Brighter Children) and educator; she has lectured all over the U.S.; holds a Master’s degree in Education and started a community orchestra in 1999. Visit: https://goodparentingbrighterchildren.com

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